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Rav Kook (Based on Ein Ayah, Gemara Shabbat 48a-b)
“Reuven… you have the restlessness of water; therefore, you shall not have superiority, for you ascended upon your father’s couch; then you profaned Him Who ascended upon my bed” (Bereishit 49:4). R. Elazar taught that the word פחז is meant to be understood as an acronym. פ stands for פזת, “you were hasty.” ח stands for חבת, “you became culpable.” ז stands for זלת, “you diminished.” (Gemara Shabbat 48)
There is a thin line that separates alacrity from impetuousness. The former is commendable, while the latter brings much spiritual wreckage in its wake. Impetuousness comes from an unwillingness to engage with the incremental steps that constitute the building blocks of all worldly attainments. A spiritually complete person accepts these limitations with love and confidence. G-d’s wisdom has created us such that our accomplishments in this world – which are themselves the foundation of the World to Come – can only be earned through small and deliberate steps. The destination must be proceeded by the journey. The journey cannot be dispensed with.
In blessings his children, Ya’akov declares that Reuven has an impetuous nature, פחז. He identifies this as the source of Reuven’s sin with Bilhah. Our Sages understood the word פחז as an acronym and attempted to break it into its component parts. Character traits – both good and bad – are not unitary, but are comprised of a number of different elements, just like molecules are comprised of various chemical elements. And so R. Elazar sought to dissect this trait of impetuousness. Why is it bad to seek escape from the constraints of incrementalism and bring the ripening of the fruit before its time? What can go wrong? What sort of ruin will result?
R. Elazar discovered that haste results in a twofold harm. One aspect is signified by ח, for חבת, “you became culpable” As we have noted, everything meaningful in our worldly reality comes through a gradual unfolding, through a chain of cause and effect that began before we were born and will continue for generations after we are gone. Every stage on this journey fulfills an essential purpose in the Divine plan. To skip steps is to neglect one’s responsibility to bring some meaningful aspect of reality into existence. It is like a builder who takes materials meant for a building’s foundation and repurposes them to beautify the structure’s upper floors. The building will look nice for a short time, but the entire structure rests on a weak foundation, and it won’t be long before repairs are urgently needed. The structure may even fall apart and need to be rebuilt. In other words, taking shortcuts creates a ‘debt’ that must eventually be repaid. As R. Elazar teaches, the ח in פחזstands for חבת, “you have become חייב” – i.e. culpable, indebted. Impetuousness undermines the very substance of reality.
Let us unpack the other aspect of impetuousness, which is signified by ז, for זלת, “you diminished.” There is a great Divine light hidden at the core of existence, which will be revealed in its fullness at the end of history. That light can only emerge after Israel and humanity have made themselves into fitting receptacles, and are prepared to receive that light with honor and anticipation. But impetuousness is self-defeating. At the very moment we are rushing into the future, we are depriving ourselves of the preparation we need to appreciate it. The future, dragged prematurely into the present, will appear to us diminished, unimportant and deserving of scorn, because our haste has undermined our ability to perceive the future in its true splendor. As R. Elazar teaches, the ז in פחז stands for זלת, “you have diminished.”
Let us learn from this teaching to honor the journey that our Divine taskmasker has set us on, to gaze upon the future only with eyes that have been satiated by the goodness and the light of the present, and to come to the future precisely through our present. “They go from strength to strength (lit. מחיל אל חיל); he will appear before G-d in Zion!” (Tehillim 84:8).
Food for Thought
Luke Jones (a contemporary fitness coach): 92% of people who set New Year’s resolutions in 2014 failed to achieve them. Ninety two percent! That’s a pretty big portion of people… But why? Why do so many of us set out with good intentions, but come up short? Why are we unable to make the changes we want to make, and create the life we want to live? [One major reason is that] it’s easy to get carried away with habit changes, especially at the start of the New Year when everyone seems to be doing it. Very often we take on too many changes for us to deal with at once… Sometimes an inspirational story can get you excited to make a big transformation straight off. Or perhaps like I mentioned earlier, you’re a sucker for comparing yourself to that false idea of perfection. You panic, and think you have to change everything as fast as possible. Whatever the reasons is, biting off more than we can chew seems to be a common trait amongst us humans when it comes to New Year’s resolutions. Whether we’re talking about changing eating habits, exercising more, quitting smoking or saving money, the more habits we try to change at one time, the less likely we are to succeed. Some crazy people have a higher capacity for changing multiple habits, but that isn’t most of us. I know for me that any more than two, things start to get messy. What to do instead: Keep it simple. Start with one resolution, the one that’s the most important to you, and focus all your energy on that…
[Also, sometimes] we just want that magic wand or special pill that will take us from where we are right now to where we want to be. We want the quick fix, or the life hack. For better or worse, things rarely work like that. Lifelong habits don’t change overnight. For most of us they’ve been ingrained over years and years of repetition. Most of the time we set the bar too high, and expect ourselves to reach it… What to do instead: Take it easy. Instead of looking for a quick fix and making big jumps in progress, be patient. This habit change business takes a little work. Rather than hacking your life, commit to the long haul, and build each habit gradually… For most people it takes at least a month for the habit to stick. Then think of the next small step you can take that will bring you closer to your goal. And don’t forget to enjoy the journey. Often we get fixated on the end goal, and lose sight of what’s in front of us. Have an idea of the general direction you want to head, but keep your focus on the present, and the smallest thing you can do right now.
Rav Kook (Orot Ha’kodesh II, Pg. 531): We say that absolute perfection is essential to existence, when nothing will remain in potential but everything will be actualized. However, there is a perfection that consists of the process of increasing perfection. But that cannot possibly apply to Divinity itself, since G-d’s infinite and absolute perfection allows no room for improvement. To this end – that the process of increasing perfection should not be lacking in existence – a universe must come into being that, in accordance with the goal of increasing perfection, begins from the lowest level. That is to say, it begins from a state of absolute deficiency. And it proceeds by constantly ascending to the absolute height.
Rav Moshe Weinberger (Song of Teshuva Vol. 4): People generally say that G-d’s objective in creating this world was to have everything completely actualized, in a state of absolute perfection. But… the highest perfection is the desire to perfect oneself. That, not a static perfection, is the purpose of Creation. The process of gaining perfection is in a certain respect higher than absolute perfection. Had Hashem not created the world with the opportunity for growth, that would have constituted an imperfection. It is precisely because G-d is perfect that He created imperfections. Only an imperfect world can perfect itself – in a constant state of growth and movement. Only because of constant feeling that he is lacking something that he must attain does man have the opportunity to work on himself. By analogy, a true teacher gives each student the ability to be creative and grow. The fact that Hashem made an imperfect world, the fact that He created us with problems and deficiencies that we have to struggle with throughout our lives, is itself an aspect of His perfection. G-d created an imperfect world that reaches toward perfection. That process is in a way greater than perfection itself. All of life is an ongoing process of reaching for these lights, which are always a step beyond us.… Our Sages tell us that the tzaddikim have no tranquility in this world or the next, for they never stop moving even in the world of souls, but keep rising “from strength to strength.” There is always room to improve. There is always a higher level. There is always something beyond a person’s immediate grasp… Nothing in the world is supposed to remain the way it is. Even a rock was not created to stay as it was made. From the beginning of time, everything is in a constant state of development and perfection, of opening up and rising, spinning towards the final perfection of all worlds, which will be revealed in the future redemption.
Mesilat Yesharim: When the time of a mitzvah performance comes, or present itself, or when the thought of performing it enters one’s mind, he should hurry and hasten to seize hold of it and perform it, and not allow time to go by in between. For there is no danger like its danger. Since, behold each new second that arises can bring with it a new impediment to the good deed… For the trait of alacrity is a very high spiritual level of perfection which a person’s nature impedes him from attaining at the current time. But he who strengthens himself and takes hold of it as much as he can, will, in the future world, merit to truly attain it. The Creator, may His Name be blessed, will bestow it to him as a reward for his striving for it during the time of his service.
And after beginning a mitzvah, he should hasten to complete it. This is not in order to lighten on himself like one who desires to cast a burden off himself but rather out of fear lest he not merit to complete it… Likewise, you will observe that all the deeds of the Tzadikim (righteous) are always performed with haste. By Avraham it is written: “And Abraham hastened into the tent to Sarah, and said, make ready quickly three measures of fine meal… And he gave it to the lad and he hastened to prepare it” (Bereishis 18:6-7). And by Rivka: “and she hastened and emptied her pitcher in the trough…” (Bereishis 24:20). Likewise, they said in the Midrash (regarding the mother of Shimshon): “‘and the woman made haste and ran…’ (Shoftim 13:10) (Midrash:) this comes to teach that all the deeds of the righteous are done with haste”. For they do not allow an interruption of time to elapse – not before beginning the Mitzva nor in completing it. A man whose soul is afire in the service of his Creator certainly will not become lazy in doing the mitzvot. Rather, his movements will be like the quick movements of fire. For he will not rest nor be still until he has finished completing the deed.
Questions for Discussion
- Can impetuousness ever be a good thing? Or is it always bad?
- Where else in the book of Bereishit do we see Reuven acting impetuously?
- Rav Kook writes that “Every stage of the journey fulfills an essential purpose in the Divine plan.” What can we do to stay mindful of this reality?
- How is impetuousness different from the trait of “zeal” praised by Mesilat Yesharim (see “Food for Thought” above).
- Rav Kook writes that “At the very moment we are rushing into the future, we are depriving ourselves of the preparation we need to appreciate it.” What do you think he means by this?








